Guilt trip:
Have you ever tried saying ‘No’ to a user? They automatically try to make you feel guilty. They might not outrightly lash out, but their response will make you feel a pang of guilt. You can get words like, “don’t you love me?” “You are not being supportive.” “Your mates are doing blah blah blah for their partners.” These words are meant to incite doubt in the hopes that you might give in
You avoid confrontation:
If you are naturally someone who avoids conflict, then you are more likely to have people in your life who would want to take advantage of you. Users generally do not go to people who they know can attack when even a little threatened. They find it easier to go for someone more easygoing and a pushover. This does not mean you should be aggressive if you feel used. It only means you should be watchful and conscious of the kinds of people you surround yourself with. If you are alert, you will spot a user miles away and stop things before they begin.
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