Most men are afraid to marry a person they cannot trust
Most men are afraid of boredom in marriage
Almost all men love and live to play. The moment they aren’t convinced that marrying a person will be fun, they are likely to put it off indefinitely. This is why no matter how serious a lady is, to get the man to want to marry her, she must in some way project to her man that the marriage will usher them into a world of fun. The moment he has this assurance; he is most likely to cooperate.
Most men are afraid to marry a person they cannot trust
Trust is a big deal for most men, particularly sexual trust. Isn’t it an oxymoron that even the most promiscuous of men still yearn to settle down with a woman of virtue. The downside of premarital sex is that, the more sexually active a lady is with a man, the more she decimates her trust account with him. The lesser he trusts the lady, the farther she will be from the ideal image of a wife he is secretly yearning for. This is why if you want him to be determined to marry you, lady, you must project and embody, purity, reliability, dependability and integrity.
Most men are afraid of boredom in marriage
Most men are afraid of boredom in marriage
Almost all men love and live to play. The moment they aren’t convinced that marrying a person will be fun, they are likely to put it off indefinitely. This is why no matter how serious a lady is, to get the man to want to marry her, she must in some way project to her man that the marriage will usher them into a world of fun. The moment he has this assurance; he is most likely to cooperate.
A major part of this is also convincing the man that you are comfortable with the level of his financial, material and professional accomplishment, and that you are willing to work and walk together with him, with what he has and where he is, on the way to his glorious future. A word is enough for the wise.